I was wondering which is better soft vs. hard harness - especially for puppies. We started Bridgette with a hard harness - which my mother and I love. With the colder weather here now...I thought I would try a soft harness for Bridgette - especially to wear over a doggie sweater. The Soft harness just doesn't seem to do as well as the hard harness did. I am also afraid when Bridgette occasionally pulls when she is outside the softer harness will break. Any comments or suggestions will be appreciated. - Deb